Letting go of a relationship that used to fill your heart can be a daunting process. The thought of removing your ex-spouse from your life can shake you to your core, especially after all those years of investing to keep the relationship alive. Yet, simultaneously it...
Whether you are thinking about separating, immersed in a difficult court battle, mediating your case, or it’s many years past your divorce, you may find yourself experiencing a range of emotions. You may be in an unpleasant or chaotic emotional swirl. You may be...
We feel the effect of divorce ripple through all aspects of life. The holiday season is no exception. Adding insult to injury, the holiday changes are emotionally and financially challenging. Our budget for gifts is dramatically downsized. We awkwardly show up solo...
One of the most powerful ways to live your life is to be in a place where you no longer need to worry about money. Divorce is a life change that can properly kick this all up, create a sense of financial fight, flight or freeze mode and send you hanging out with the...
When our relationship takes a turn for the worst, typically our self-respect suffers. We may find that suddenly all of our feelings of self-worth go out the window. For some, there will be a tendency to hyper-focus on what went wrong. We may question each decision...
In my nearly half a century of living, after spending nearly half my years working with people going through a divorce, I’ve become clear on an important truth. Are you ready? Here it is. Our personal perspective informs all that we see and all that we do. It...
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